Stop indulging in victim bashing, clothes don't cause harassment. People do.

Started Sun, 2012-02-05 by dhruvarora
Addressed To: Government officials rooting for a Dress Code for Women (+1 others)
  • So called "traditionalists" who like to engage in victim bashing
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This is an open letter/petition to K K Seethamma and other higher-ups who believe in victim-bashing and think that the reason women get sexually harassed on the streets is because of the clothes they wear. We urge you to curb this foolish outlook towards such a serious issue and actually take action about where it is needed the most.

Most officials simply turn their face, and the people who don't (like the cops who prevented a girl from getting harassed in Gurgaon that later got beaten up so bad they were put in a hospital, or Keenan and Reuben who were killed for the same reason) often suffer the consequences of raising their voice. It is this bullying that needs to be addressed to that people can freely raise their voice without the fear of being killed, and simply blaming women for "not wearing enough clothes" will not work. It's sad that while the perpetrators of the above mentioned crimes do whatsoever they please, it is the women and the men who support this practical outlook towards life that suffer.

We understand coming from a traditional Indian space how the current dressing sense may not agree with some of your ideals, but the sad thing is that this country believes in free will (or at least it used to). So even though you may not agree with it, you have no right to force people to agree with you. Instead of grabbing a hold of people who are the victims and blaming them for BEING harassed, we urge you to grab a hold of the perpetrators and destroy the problem at it's root.

vidita1012
18 Apr 2012
Uttar Pradesh, India
Sneha
23 Mar 2012
Mumbai, Maharashtra, India
PoojaChowdhary
19 Mar 2012
Delhi, Delhi, India
renukasaroha
16 Mar 2012
Strider
07 Mar 2012
SuvarnaMenon
21 Feb 2012
AnkitAggarwal
16 Feb 2012
MukeshAggarwal
16 Feb 2012
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kamaraju

we have to reach a particular level when we leave people to their likes and dislikes.so far we have been very conservative in our taste and i dont think that days will change that fast.we may be puzzled a bit if we find someone who is differently clad.we may wonder whether they belong here.

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